Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Ammumma - Grandma

The most irritataing person during my school days :P

I was sharing my room with her and she did a good job in eating my head :) For her the most important person in our family was my Dad and she was shit scared of him :P
The Job which she loved doing was to cook rice from outside. In the era of pressure cooker & gas stove she was the only one in my world who loved making rice in the hand made stove out of rock & steel vessel. Everyday morning she will come and ask my mother "njan appam choru veka alle" if my mother says a No it was like a bad day for her because that was the only happening thing in her life. I can still picture the way she sits in front of that fire checking whether the fire is enough for the rice to get cooked.
Since I was not a great student in school for me studying only happened during exam time. Scoring decent marks was the only aim. So during exam time i use to keep studying late night and she keeps asking me to switch off the light not becauase she was getting distrubed but electricity was like her second son :P

That was the time I was a fan of MTV Roadies & when mom n dad goes to office my honeymoon period to watch TV gets a life.For her watching MTV was sinful because in that according to her girls never wear clothes and boys kept touching girls. She starts her commentary and keeps asking me to watch some news channel. One day I got pissed off and I still remember keeping a telgu news channel just to make her wish come true (news channel). She coudnt understand a single word but was curiously watching. I went off and when I came back I asked her did u understand and she replied "ya but this news reader was way too fast and she didnt knw to how to speak malayalam" I couldt control my laugh but told her "c this is why I am telling we should never watch news during day time". I am sorry ammumma for fooling you on that day ....

For her I never knew how to take bath and keeps saying "korachu enna techo mudilu" . I was the motta in family with terrible lookinh hair style and brow hair. For her my sisters hair was perfect which use to be long - strong and black (the mallu hair ). I hate applying oil and I use act asif I am applying oil in front of amma. One day I didnt close the bathroom door while taking a hair bath and still remember that two eyes which was staring at me through the door. Who else other than my ammumma can do such an act. I screamed and gave her a  blast and asked her why she had to do such a uneathical act becoz I was in 8th and during that time sme1 cing us naked is smething which we can never digest.  And for that her reply was "i just wanted to check whether you are taking a proper hair bath". Now for that ammumma I must say i still dont knw and I knw from heaven u wil be saying "sho ee peninnu epazhum kulikaan ariyilla :P "

We keep fighitng the whole day for some silly things escpecially during my study holidays but I never use to miss giving you my tea which u loved. I knw u still love it :) . You are the person who tauhgt me to make black tea and I am greatful to you for that :)

Amma use to ask ammumma whther I was really studying and so making her believe that I am studying was my tough task which was actually not that tough. I kept reading bla bla bla and she use to think I am studying :P

The best friend of her was Pathumma. Pathu had a ear problem and could hear only partially but ammumma n pathu use to gossip abt others excellently and me n amma use to wonder how they communicate.

I am thankful to you for giving me my wonderful dad & ever loving uncles. Will keep you in my prayers.  I know you are smiling from there.

Monday, August 8, 2011

Super man turns into a super common man

This is the case with the many (exceptions are there in my family)

Men goez behind a girl singing the song "I can love you like no1 can, I can be your superman .....She starts her homework of making him understand the basics of life like"marriage s not a simple game", "you will have to build your career first", "we will have to face the opposition from our parents" but for all these womenly thoughts men makes her keep quiet by saying "me hu na"... n gal starts singing the song for herself in the background. If he comes under the bracket of "bad boys" then she has to do hard work because the ultimate aim is to make the world praise about him. 

I feel that till the time a women falls for a boy she is intelligent & sensible  and once a boy gets into her life all the intelligence in her right or left part of the brain transfers into the center part of his so called brain. So what I mean s men are all foolish until he falls for a girl & women go retarded once she fall for a guy.. 

Man makes a gal fall for her by his super natural "care" & "love" which he over-floats making her feel "this is the guy". Here what happens is her expectations about him will be up in the 20th floor. She customizes her mind and communicates to her brain "now dnt think too much" .And now the game begins ..

When a  man calls his girl when she s surrounded by friends the full crowd will say "wow luk how much he care 4 u" but when women does the same thing then its a "disturbance"  

He says you are my best & nothing more than you and then when she gets serious abt him he says "concentrate on your career this s not child play" The same guy who says he loved the silence they shared over phone says that the silence is something which irritates him the most. 
This s life .. So here what you have to do is frm a normal gal u be a super woman who never thinks so much..
Find happiness in small things .. Never forget to smile ... & be with people who can understand You and can cheer you up :) Nothing is going wrong give some time to the time :P

You can never stop loving him becoz one day you knw that he will turn back into a superman ..
Love is to wait till he gets bald n say "shit I never thought that we will make it this large" 

Friday, August 5, 2011

Its never too late to lock the room

In your house of life some rooms should be locked up forever ...
You wait n wait for the light to brighten it up but then you get sinked in the darkeness ......
Then one day will come when you realise that you have to get up & walk all by yourself...........
Knowing that the room is filled with negative thoughts & darkness ...........


Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Paint My Memories



I love the way memories get captured into this small device .....
I cant paint , but you make ma Job simple but painting all those beautiful people around me...
Have no idea on how you works  .... but  just love painting people through You.......
Can never get bored If you are there and you are loaded with pics...

So many times I have thought "why the fuck I dnt have You with me "
I know that I cant afford U, but its not keeping me away from buying..

I am already in Love with You ....Welcome to my life :)


Friday, July 29, 2011

Why You


You proposed me one mid-night and said "I thought you knew that I was in love with you"
From that day You make me believe that hubbys can be best friends with no ego or bossiness .........
You will not mind getting me a drink if I want to get sloshed but will make sure that I reach home safely ....
You fight with me really hard but make sure to support me if we are in a crowd ........
You can tolerate my insane Jokes but can never tolerate my tears........
You can travel with me for no reason but can never move around when a world cup match is being telecatsted ......
You Will ride the bike rashly even if I am sitting behind making me believe that bikes are more important than me & bike will remain a tough competition in ma life......
You dnt mind eating up my full KFC when you are really hungry without even asking me whether I want...........
You keep advicing me on how I should cook but will say it was awsome when i make something really simple..
You keep saying that you are gonna change making me realise that men can never change ...

 Now any1 want anymore reason for WHY I AM WITH YOU :)

The Only Reason Was Drugs :P :P

Jigala was Sapuluz strange friend whom she thought was addicted to drugs when she met him :P
Drugs that was the only things which attracted her towards him :P not becoz she was addicted to drugs but she along with her best friend (chunomoyi) thought it was their duty to give company to people getting addicted to drugs so that he will come out of depressions or whatever situation he is undergoing.... 


So they were on mission but then Chunomoi  had another boy (soka)  in class who came to the college only becoz of her (not love n all) so she had to spent time with him .. Soka kept advising Chunomoi on basic things like "how to stay happy", "how to stop worrying about things which she cannot control" bla bla ..... Then since Sapulu wanted to break the ice with Jingala she went and started talking to him .. but Jingala kept listening to sad songs like "I am lonely , anjale n all ... then Since Sapulu had also just recovered from one break up she thought it was better to stay away ....

One day in between class Jingala sent a message to sapulu saying "gals are the reason for all break up" Sapulu got mad and sent a reply blasting him not to generalize on things .. From that day Jingala started talking to Sapulu ...

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

My Sister

On the way to school she was explaining to shebachechi how much excited she is about going to hostel .. I was as usual listening to her without understanding the dream world they were talking about...

The day came and amma,acha n eachi  was busy filing the Cream color suite case which acha got for Gulf Bazar. I was running around the house excited about going for a trip in the hired JEEP. .. We all got in and started the drive to the great Vimala College .. Though I dont remember the Journey I can still hear my acha advising my sis on how she should behave and how she should concentrate on studies ..... We finally reached and started unloading the luggage .. After my achan was done with advising my sister and my mom just staring at her not able to express what she was feeling  we said bye to her and got back into the vehicle .. I jumped in2 the jeep 2 occupy the side seat because while coming I had a fight with sis .. But she never came in .. She stood there with her eyes filled with tears and the Jeep started moving .... And then I asked amma why she is not coming and then she just said "I told you right she is going to stay in hostel"  Yes @ times though we get a lecture on certain things it will only sink into your heart only when it happens .. N yes I felt that .. Came back crying and thinking now how is that gap in our home gonna get filled without her .. Then came those days communicating over phone .. Since it was not a mobile era and the STD charges were super high me and amma went by evening 7 to the Booth (7-8.30 was the only time when we could call her to the hostel land-line)  We use to dial n dial n dial since it use to come busy because that was the only connection for the entire students in the hostel .... Sometimes we get her on line and sometimes we go back without the line getting connected ..   Now we can call any1 any time but I never have time for anything ...I wish I still had the patience to wait till the call gets connected and I could live without complaining much ....Love You eachi